Marriage: An Audience to your life...

A friend of mine thinks he can sing well. And when we guys are in a conversation would suddenly turn towards one of us and ask which song was the one that he was humming. And then he would virtually talk the song and ask us if he got the tune right... One day i asked him if there was one person in the world who thought he sang well. And boy i was so damn sure there wouldn't be any. He said there was. His wife. He said his wife thought he sang beautifully. In fact to our surprise, his wife would actually ask him to sing certain favorite songs of hers and listen to it enthusiastically.... ......................."I found the answer last Saturday. I was watching Shall We Dance on HBO and it all made sense. Susan Sarandon in a half a minute dialogue made it crystal clear. In the scene she says that we marry because we need a witness to our insignificant lives. We need a witness to see what we do. We need somebody to watch us all the time and cheer us so that we never ever get to feel that our lives are worthless. Have look at this video."...
snip from: http://rkvsraman.blogspot.com/
Video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tdBATA_Ag5s